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The Really, Truly Needy

I got another letter the other day from a student at Dickinson University, asking me "if your book covers strategies for the women who have not been able to take earnest pride in their careers for they are stuck in dead-end jobs with kids, no father, no help, no health care, and whose mission every day is simply to survive." She continues, "what I was thinking when I was reading that article was what about the thousands of women who are walking through the doors of say, Wal-Mart every morning earning their $5.15/hour . . . who have babies at home with no father to help ... One cannot pull herself up by her bootstraps if she's got no boots. "

The answer, of course, is no, I am not directing my advice to unmarried Wal Mart cashier mothers. Had she read the book, rather than just following the common student strategy of asking me what was in it, she would know that my strategies are all intended to apply BEFORE women end up single parents at Wal Mart.

Youngsters are supposed to be idealistic, so I would normally not blog about it, but the student's naive question surfaced in a much more dangerous form recently in the lefty magazine, The New Republic on line. In a column with the illuminating headline, " A PLAGUE ON LINDA HIRSHMAN, HER CRITICS, AND HER SUPPORTERS" [I guess that covers pretty much everyone except the writer] one Lee Siegel blogs that "Hirshman . . . is writing for a very small, elite group of professional women. For most women, their job is something they would gladly have twins to escape." Then (is there a macro on the computer that produces "cashier at Wal-Mart" when you press it? I would think a columnist for the New Republic would have something a little more original in his bag of examples), Siegel continues, " I don't think a cashier at Wal-Mart is going to sit around wondering whether or not she should return to work as a ringing statement of strength and autonomy."

The youngster can't remember, but surely Siegel knows that the strategy of rejecting proposed social change because it does not solve every possible social problem is the wickedly effective strategy of the RIGHT. No welfare except for the really truly needy, remember? That's Reagan's phrase, not someone normally found in The New Republic.

So. No escape from the ball and chain of the gender ideology of boring, repetitious tasks, dependence on a wealthier man, and spending your social resources at the bake sale . . .
unless you also solve the problem of globalized late capitalism, single parenthood and American economic inequality, as manifest in the current version of the Walter Keane painting, the Wal Mart cashier.

This girl ain't takin that bait, thank you anyway. Even Marx knew you could not start a revolution with the lumpenproletariat. Help people with boots first. Problem is, even women with boots aren't using them very well when they "choose" to be barefoot and pregnant.

But I'd bet anything that Lee Siegel doesn't think we should stop giving Social Security just because it goes mostly to the well-to-do. The funny thing about this argument is that it's always used against feminism. Nothing can be done for any woman unless you do for every woman. As if women had some higher moral capacity which made them responsible for every single human soul on this earth. Why stop with the Wal Mart cashier? What about the impoverished and disease ridden millions of the third world?

Here's the dirty little secret Siegel didn't share: his "liberal" argument is a sure prescription for feminism's failure. If no one can liberate any woman until they liberate every woman, then the liberal men with their stay at home wives will be just as happily ensconced in the 1950's as the conservatives they criticize.

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Comments

Oh my, you are so politically incorrect! I love it!

I've been thinking about these sorts of questions for women (and men) who earn less. It's easy to say that a Wal-Mart cashier would love to quit if work was just some sort of nasty punishment evil feminists had meted her. But quitting means more than the release from a possibly boring and unhealthy job. It means a reduction in funds, for one thing, and money really is the basic motive for almost everyone to work.

Then it may decrease the woman's worthiness in the eyes of her family. Yes, we all know that this shouldn't happen, but I've seen it happen many times, and also the reverse: how a woman who starts earning money is suddenly regarded more highly by her family. This is especially the case in some poorer countries.

Then there is the loss of comradeship on the job and the time spent with other adults. But all these might weigh less on the scale than being able to leave the job, of course. Still...

I have to say that I am 100% on board with the idea that there needs to be a revolution in the home if feminism to make greater strides. I think this advice is practical to all women. I also realize that you are advising only a small class of women here. However I think some of that advice, while it may get rich women ahead, will be to the detriment of poor women. In our current system, someone must always end up working at wal mart. It is this service and pink collar labor that infact enables upper class women to weild the money and power that they do(who are thier nannies? Who are thier maids? Who are preparing thier take out meals, and esspressos?) Most women are not rich or acadeics, most of the woking poor are women. If feminism is to work for most women, I completely agree that there must be a shift i the way housework is done, but instead of shopping the work out to poorer women and "marrying down", it would be more of a benefit to use positions of power to lobby for healthcare, flex hours, and paternity leave. without those thing I dont see how the benfits of professional women will trickle down to most women at all.

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